I am not a love expert by any means; in fact the closest I come to knowing matters of love has to be when I sit down to write an essay on the same in case it comes up while I am at work in the essay writing company that I work for on part time. Writing essays and studying in campus at the same time is the most delicate of balances I have ever had to negotiate with my life but I am glad I have learnt to master it and let it not affect me at all. It is difficult, especially when it is exam time in campus, but I have somehow learnt ways of how to get around it.
As earlier recapped, I am not a love expert as such, but I know one or two things about love and what it entails. One of the things I like talking about are the various ways of expressing love to a person, commonly called the languages of love. It is true that not everybody likes saying ‘I love you’ to a boyfriend or girlfriend, no matter how badly they feel like saying it. I am lucky to be among those who find it very comfortable to say the three words, but I am not dumb to imagine everybody else is like me.
Other than words, the other languages of love are touch, quality time, gifts and service. Of all the five, campus students use touch the most. You know as well as I do that touch is the most fulfilling of all-if sex and kisses therein are everything to go by-but I would like to aver that all the four languages of love are equally exciting. In any case, we can’t all be the same. There are people who enjoy spending quality time with you as an expression of love, while yet others like giving gifts to their loved ones. The key to true love is to know the language your lover cherishes the most and giving it to him or her.
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